Figuring Out 40

Are there things that go through your mind when you’re alone in the shower or taking a walk that deal with forgiving yourself? Whether you’re in your 40’s or just encountered a lot in your years, chances are you’ve made a few mistakes. I have a few friends who are …

Oh crap! Saving for retirement is smacking me right in the face. It was so much easier when I was working full time. My 401 (k) contributions were deducted directly from my paycheck and my employer matched them. Since I’ve been unemployed, then self-employed for five years  – it’s definitely …

  At least once a week when I’m out in public I’m asked if I’m going to have any more children. When I say no, I get flooded with sad looks and guilty sentiments about how “lonely” A.J. will be as an only child. Hey! I had him when I …

The highlight of my weekend was watching a new movie, “With This Ring”, on Lifetime TV. A fellow journalist, Denene Millner from MyBrownBaby.com who’s also a NY Times Best Selling Author, watched her co-authored novel come to life on the small screen. I had the opportunity to chat with her …

I found my first grey hair on my 28th birthday. Since then, the greys have invited even more of their little friends to the party on my scalp. For about 10 years, I highlighted my hair which covered the worst of the greys. Since I no longer have highlights or …